I am
incredibly stubborn; but, usually, I have an agenda. My plan is to rebuild what’s been taken from me through a lifetime of hard
knocks in every area. I am not going to give in by taking the “easy way out”
(which is a foreign concept to me, in any case.) I have never had the option of
choosing simplicity in any endeavor. Literally, everything I undertake has been
exponentially more difficult for me than for many others.
Yet, I keep
putting one foot in front of the other. Step-by-step is the way any achiever succeeds.
If we give up, we don’t succeed; it’s
that simple.
Am I alone
in having this attitude? Of course not! If that were the case, we wouldn’t hear
so many accounts of survivors against the odds. For that reason, today I am
featuring three incredibly strong ladies who I was privileged to meet through
the Google+ community, Awesome
Bloggers . (Please see the always
charming, often deeply moving posts of the owner of the community, Ahmed Kanan,
at The
Keyboard Talk. Incidentally, he also honored me with a guest
blog a few months ago.)
Three Everyday Survivors
Mary Burris—blogs at Jingle,
Jangle, Jungle. She is a cancer and challenging relationship survivor. Yet,
she writes about popular music, past and present, in a manner that puts a smile
on the reader’s face. Mary skillfully reminds us that, whatever we go through,
it’s important to keep our hearts as light as possible.

Suzi T—blogs at Chronicles
of a Lumpy Person. Her 20-year-old daughter, Ashton, has a genetic disorder
called Cowden’s disease. This condition has necessitated 15 surgeries so far;
the next operation is scheduled soon. This remarkable woman has recently left
her full-time job in order to concentrate her full attention on her daughter’s
complicated medical care.

Carol Graham—blogs at Never…Ever…Give
up Hope. She has her hand in many pots: jewelry store owner, motivational
speaker, author, and more. Yet, this lady of steel has been forced to deal with
her husband’s near-fatal car accidents (two of them!) She also survived the
arson of one of her fine jewelry stores.

A Survivor in The Bible--Nehemiah
Pictured
above is the wall surrounding Jerusalem built during the 5th century
B.C. The prophet Nehemiah supervised construction. He knew a wall was necessary
in order to defend the city from intruders because the Israelites were living
in captivity in Babylon at this time. King Artaxerxes of Babylon allowed the
prophet to return to Jerusalem in order to build the wall. Estimates state the
wall took 20 years to build. In the meantime, the builders overcame bullying
and many other setbacks.
In fact,
Nehemiah’s determination to push forward angered some powerful people. Nehemiah 4:1-2 states that a man called
Sanballat, in particular, grew angry and ridiculed the Jewish people.
My Conclusion
I say “Keep
those bricks coming, one by one!” Many everyday people conquer outrageous odds
daily. We just don’t always hear about it because it doesn’t promote “good
ratings”, or “good sales”. Nevertheless, there are stories of human triumph
against the odds wherever you look.
What are you
building brick by brick?
Thank you, Traci! That was so thoughtful of you to include me. What a great reminder for each of that we are not alone in our struggles and the importance of putting on a happy face and continuing to move forward in our lives.
ReplyDeleteHi, Mary! Thanks for your example! It's always helpful to know we're not alone!
DeleteAww thank you for the compliment. You are always so supportive. Just one thing though- we are still waiting for Ashton's CS diagnosis. I'm the one with the diagnosis but won't be surprised if hers is positive too.
ReplyDeleteHi, Suzi! Thanks for your comments! Well, I'm embarrassed! I do recall, now, that you're waiting on Ashton's official diagnosis....In any case, I love being supportive of tough ladies like yourself.
DeleteThanks Traci for giving our heroes a little coverage, an awesome touch in your lovely blog :) - it is true, friendship knows no borders :)
ReplyDeleteHi, Ahmed. You're right; friendship knows no borders. I know some Google+ members who don't even want to know where the people who they interact with are from...Everyday heroes need more coverage, don't they? In the meantime, thanks for providing us all with a nurturing community!
DeleteI am honored to be included in such awesome company. And also honored for you mentioning me. Whenever I think I have had a tough time of it, I can find a dozen more people who have had to endure a lot more. We all have the survival gene in us and when it is pushed to the limits it is our choice whether we give up or move forward. Thank you Traci
ReplyDeleteHi, Carol! Thanks for your kind comments! Many of us do seem to have survival genes built into us. Some of us must make daily choices to hide or push through. Thanks for your wonderful example!
DeleteThanks for this reminder. It helps to know about resilient people in a 'if they can do it, maybe so can I' kind of way. Good to see Carol here :-). I know her story. She's one brave lady.
ReplyDeleteHi, Tulika. Stories of people overcoming the odds are always empowering. We often forget that regular people conquer overwhelming trials daily, not just celebrities...Thanks for reading!
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