Here, wait a
minute. I need to….
- Fold laundry
- Drink some water
- Check my e-mail
- Determine if I have any text messages
- Plan tonight’s dinner
- Worry if my son got to work safely.
I’m probably
forgetting something. In any case, give me about an hour to check everything
off my to-do list. After that, I’ll get right back to finishing this article--unless
something else pops up. No guarantees.
Whether you’re
male or female, you may relate to the image above. I find myself thinking or
writing one thought, and fast forwarding to a totally different subject.
Additionally, I’ve been known to walk into a room and immediately forget the
purpose of changing venues. I know I’m not alone in having this personality
quirk. Numerous friends report the same kind of behavior.
We live in a
culture of constant change and movement. In other words, we abide in a state of
commotion. There’s no getting around it. Many of us deal with multiple
projects, children, medical challenges, and so forth.
Hold on! I
had some other good ideas for blog posts. There was the one about…
Should I serve
chili dogs or fish sticks for dinner?
What are distractions?
Many circumstances
cause medical and mental “viruses”. In fact, anything that keeps us from
fulfillment can be considered an unwanted disturbance.
For
instance, we hear quite often about cutting out disruptions when we’re driving.
My daughter just finished taking Driver’s Education in school. Many hours are spent talking about the dangers
of texting and driving. They also discuss restrictions on driving unsupervised
with friends.
I submit
that driving isn’t the only time distractions are unhealthy. Chronic and acute
trauma of any kind provides them as well:
- Illness
- Equipment malfunction and failure
- Relationship crisis
- Career predicament
A Practical Analogy
A friend
related to me a practical illustration of diversion. She learned it in her
church’s ladies’ group meeting:
Two ladies
held a rope tautly at about chest height. A blindfolded woman had to walk from
one end of the rope to the other. Her job was to keep hold of the rope even
though the other attendees simultaneously called out urgently for her
attention. She succeeded.
What is the Solution?
Pain
happens. We get distressed by the many roadblocks life throws at all of us. In the same manner as the woman above, we must
not let the vagaries of life sway us from our course. Our first priority is to hold on to what we
know is truth.
It’s not
easy to stay on the road to improvement when life throws up barriers. Yet, we
can train ourselves to remain calm. The natural inclination of the dogs pictured
above is to chase the cat. Most canines would be instantly distracted and give
chase.
On the
contrary, these police K-9 (canine) recruits are too well-trained to follow
this strong, momentary instinct. They
are holding on to the bigger picture in the knowledge of an eventual reward.
How do you
keep yourself free of distractions?
So many distractions... Even as I read this, my phone AND computer are beeping, indicating that my attention is needed elsewhere! I try to carve out chunks of time for specific tasks and ignore everything else until that task is complete. So, right now, I am ignoring the phone and the computer!!
ReplyDeleteHi, Rosanne! Thanks so much for commenting. I'll reply in about a month when my plate has cleared...Oh, wait! My plate will be even more full then! I hear you, though. People and electronics are always calling for our time. We have to be the masters of prioritizing and multitasking that are ancestors probably weren't... Wouldn't you know it? There's another blog post! Let me write this down before I forget.
DeleteI was so distracted when I wrote that reply, I misspelled "our". I can't win!
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